Is what you are being or doing valuable? What dictates and determines whether you or what you do is valuable? When we really bring our attention to this it's all judgment. What is valuable or not valuable is all based on judgement. We've been taught to include what we deem as valuable and exclude what we deem or judge as not valuable. We turn towards what we've been taught to care about and turn away from what hasn't gotten us love, approval, acceptance, money, or reward. We've learned to value the gifts, talents and abilities that has gotten us somewhere in life and exclude, deny, disown, or reject the gifts, talents and abilities that has gotten us in trouble, or seemingly made our lives worse. Have you ever heard the advice: "you just need to value you yourself more?" How did you feel when you heard this?
Is what you're doing or thinking of doing it worth it? Are you worthy of having what you want? Are you trying to prove or disprove that? We can get fixated on questions of: Is this worth it? Am I worth it? Or dismissing things based on the point of view that "it's not worth it." We get caught doing these calculations, consciously or not, as to whether there is a point to what we're doing, whether who we are or what we are doing has value and whether what we're doing is worth it. Again, all of this is judgment and leads us to separate and exclude anything we've judged as not worth it or not valuable to us or someone else. We've diminished our choices so much that the our pool of potential choices only includes what we've judged as what we're worthy of or what we've decided is good, right, worth it or valuable.
What if right now we could invite a big energetic, emotional, mental, and physical re-set around value and worth? Imagine that you could call in any gifts, talents and abilities that have been rejected, minimized, devalued or dismissed by you or others. Imagine you could call back any qualities, preferences and desires that you have that you separated from because it wasn't worth having them, or their value couldn't be assigned. Imagine if who you truly are and what you choose to do is no longer controlled by worth and value. What would that be like? What if you could be you whether or not there's value to it? What if you could be all of you whether or not it's worth it? What if you could choose a life that's greater than you're worthy of? What if together we could expand our awareness to include the possibilities we've previously excluded?
What if right now you can choose to re-claim YOU? Ask for your gifts, talents and abilities to show up to bless your life and contribute to new possibilities actualizing here. For me I've been controlled by the point of view that it's not worth it, or by trying to figure out what other people value so that I could make myself be that, or in trying to make what I was doing worthwhile to other people. It was never about me because I decided that I was here on earth for other people. So much of my energy was going in the direction of diminishing me so that I could "serve" others and deliver what they wanted or needed. Eventually I hit a breaking point where I became so depressed, shut down and withdrawn that I couldn't take it anymore. I had to do something different even if no one else saw it, valued it or cared. So, what can we put in place now to truly change our lives and create the future we desire to have, even if no one else values it, deems it as worthwhile or approves of it? Are you willing to be out of control? What can we choose to be and do now that we've never acknowledged or considered? It's time to thrive, even if it's not worth it, there's no value to it and we're not worthy of it! How much fun can we have choosing to thrive anyway?
Christine helps people to navigate transitions with love and wisdom. offering presence and care she can assist people to play an active role in their mental, emotional and physical health no matter what is going on in life. With all of the different tools, methods and wisdom she has access to, she inspires, encourages and makes it possible for people to really love and honor themselves, and thus be more able to love and honor others. Through her patience, kindness and astute awareness of the body, mind and heart she accelerates people's self-healing journeys and makes the inner and outer world a whole lot easier to navigate!