Who or what have you assigned as the source of your pain and suffering? Are you the source of it, or is it someone or something else? According to the reality of assigning blame, someone has to be at fault or responsible, so either it's you, someone else or something else. With polarity, when we're ready to change something often we get locked in the other side of the polarity which can be referred to as the "not" side or the "un" side. When you realize that making you, someone or something else responsible for the pain and suffering isn't working to bring you the freedom, relief or peace that you desire to have, you try to go to "not responsible", or trying to assign the source to something more nebulous, like life or God or the Universe, or past lives, or parallel lives or karma, the underlying assumption is that someone or something has to be responsible or the source of this, and we get locked in a debate over what we are and aren't responsible for and where to assign the blame, or how to identify the root of the pain and suffering, the origin, where it all began. We are looking for the cause to change the effect. When the cause is identified as someone or something out there we can feel powerless or helpless to change it. As a way to attempt to feel more empowered or in control we assign the cause or the source of it to be within us. What if it's both and neither?
Eventually we step into the moment of "not caring" about identifying what is the source, who's to blame, who's responsible for it, and why it occurred. We shift into this magical space that is a common question in Access Consciousness which is, "What else is possible?" If all of our attention and energy shifted to what else is possible? And questions like: what would it take to change this? What else can I choose? How does it get any better than this? we are essentially freeing up our energy to BE and RECEIVE something different. That whole slogan of BE THE CHANGE is a useful one, and essentially can be acknowledged as, everything that is here is here, what can I be or do with it? We can be the ones to respond differently to what's presented. We can be the one's to see things with new eyes, or from a new perspective, that allows for different possibilities or realities to show up. How much more can we step into our greatness? What would it be like if we "un-assigned" the pain and suffering from who or what we previously assigned it to, and instead chose to transmute it, change it, asked for something greater to come into existence, forgo it, offer it up to Source Consciousness, the Universe, Creator Beings, whatever is beyond where we used to go for "help". Let's step it up, so to speak, and tap into resources and contribution that may never have been available to us. Don't look to the past to decide what is possible or not possible, or what is or isn't available to you. Tune into the energy, space and consciousness available now and go there to ask and receive something different.
What choices do you have that other people don't have? One such choice that you can acknowledge, is that of having energetic ease. When you are being you, and choosing to occupy your body and claim your mental, emotional and physical space, you can have ease. If you're functioning on autopilot, or checked out, or desiring to escape your circumstances, you'll be bombarded by thoughts, feelings, emotions and psychic energies that will lead to contraction, frustration, discomfort and even apathy. Now is the time to wake up to the choices that are available and have the joy of being you. Your body will thank you. When you are being you, your body relaxes, and the energies of peace, calm, kindness and gratitude can bless your life. Here is a video I did yesterday as an invitation to this.
A huge number of people on this planet of ours have bought into the worthy and deserving explanations for why things do or don't occur. It is a convenient "why" to explain the reason for pain and suffering. If you believe you are not worthy, you give permission for the thoughts, feelings and emotions associated with blame, shame and guilt to come on in and have their way with you. If you believe that you deserve pain or lack or suffering on some level, you have given permission for thoughts, feelings and emotions and realities that perpetrate separation, rejection, neglect, abandonment and unkindness to come on in to your mental, emotional and psychic space. The belief in not worthy and not deserving is a big permission slip to be tortured by shadow or fear based frequencies and entities. Are you ready to be free of this?
The tricky thing, when we're operating in polarity, is that when we try to get out of something we often flip to the other side of the coin. In this case we've believed that the way out of this was to become worthy and deserving, as though that would set us free. If you've tried this out, check in with yourself, how well has it worked? Essentially we think that if we become worthy and deserving all will be well, which is a lie. You never become worthy and deserving enough. You're always wrong, you'll always be missing something, or not quite there. The whole creation itself leads to being manipulated, dominated and controlled by someone or something outside of yourself, or seemingly controlled or held back by you. What is actually true, is that if we BE all that we are, greater possibilities can show up in our lives, and we won't be a match to the thoughts, feelings, emotions and fear based entities that diminish our greatness.
Now is the time to re-claim your sovereign space of being. You have to take responsibility for your mental, emotional and psychic space, whatever it takes. We're coming into intense times, and unless you choose to step up and BE YOU, you will essentially be taken over by the energies of fear, conflict, depression, guilt, shame and anger. Now is the time to remember how to love you, how to BE in the vibration of love, gratitude, kindness, peace and calm. You cannot force, control, or manipulate yourself into this. It's about ASKING for it, whatever it takes, activating your choice to have those energies available, be the space of you and function from consciousness. You've got this, you can do this. You can step up and be an empowered being on this planet. May you have all the resources you require to have ease with this. May we all have the tools and the resources to BE the space, the energy and the consciousness of peace, calm, kindness, joy and gratitude. We can choose to celebrate our lives, celebrate our bodies and receive the gifts of living. How much more can we contribute to us all thriving now and in the future? If you would like assistance to be free of the worthy and deserving realities, please get in touch with me.
There is this question from Access Consciousness that's great to ask when you're being or doing something weird and you're not sure why. The question is: Who am I being? It's very common to get caught playing roles, or with certain people to commit to being or doing something for them, without even fully knowing what's going on. One such role-play is the Teacher/Student dynamic. Instead of being "left in the classroom" of academia where it belongs, it seeps into our relationships now and prevents intimacy, acknowledgment of everyone present, ease, peace, space and relaxation. Why then is it so pervasive? Because so many of us have bought the point of view that we are here on planet Earth to learn lessons. Do you, as an Infinite Being believe that your purpose for existence is to learn lessons? Or is that just one of the infinite possibilities for your choice to come here and live this life?
So, the question becomes, have you committed to being a Teacher or a Student in this lifetime? See, if you have committed to something, you give up your choice in favor of the commitment, in other words, you have to be that even if its not who or what you would choose to be in the moment you're in. You can choose to jump into the role of "Teacher" or "Student" if it's fun for you, like you're playing a game and one person gets to be the one who knows stuff and the other gets to be the one who want's to know stuff. Yay, how much fun can you have? Then, when you're done and want to play a different game, or receive the wisdom from the one who is pretending they don't know stuff, toss out the script. Ok infinite Being that you are, what do you know? What are your gifts and talents? What is your brilliance that you weren't allowed to be when you were playing the role of the student that is here to learn from others? And hey teacher, you can relax now and don't have to live under this pressure of having to deliver stuff and be brilliant and important and knowledgeable. You can run around, play, laugh, jump up and down and have some fun. All the "students" will be okay without you.
Here are some indicators that you may be committed to being a Teacher: 1. You have this need to correct people, 2. You want them to get what your saying, and make sure that they get it (as though it's vital that they hear what you have to say), 3. People diminish themselves around you, looking to you as the one who has the answers or knows the answers and may be intimidated, or shut down or shrink around you, 4. You command attention, and ensure that everyone is listening to you before you say anything, because what you're saying is important. 5. People are on edge around you, like you are about to scold them, or make them wrong, or point out the errors they are making. And in your experience you can be like, why is this stuff going on? I don't have this need, why are people showing up like this around me?
Here are some indicators that you may be committed to being a Student: 1. You go blank when you get around certain people, 2. You feel stupid, or confused, or unable to express yourself when you get around certain people, 3. You have this intense need to learn, and improve and get better and your not even quite sure why, 4. You diminish yourself and feel less than around certain people. 5. Things you learn don't stick, you forget easily, or you find yourself repeating certain lessons over and over again. With this one, in your perspective it can be this inner questioning of what's wrong with me? Why can't I be me? Why do I make myself less than? Why can't I show up in a way that allows them to see my brilliance, acknowledge me and celebrate the wisdom and gifts that I have? Why am I hiding?
So, are you willing to give up your commitments to being a teacher or being a student? Being You can include teaching and learning, however, if you have that commitment in place you have to show up and live within the confines of the role, be that character, and wear the costume. So, if you do find yourself stuck in something in regards to any or all of this ask: Who am I being? Acknowledge your commitments, reclaim your choice to Be YOU, and expand out to receive and have more of what that is. If you would like assistance to free yourself of any characters, costumes, roles or scripts that are confining or defining you (which translates into the feeling of being stuck) get in touch with me. How much more free can you now choose to be?
When you think of receiving support from people how does it feel? For many people there are some negative associations there. The tendency in the collective field is that the person receiving the support is disadvantaged, in need, helpless, desperate, in a difficult spot, and cant make it on their own. So when we desire to have support, feel connected or have people be there for us, and we have these sorts of associations in place, without realizing it, we will make ourselves less than, shut down, develop some sort of lack of what we need that we can't fill or meet on our own, or become panicked or anxious or desperate or needy or create ourselves as being without hope or options. These sorts of realities maintain the savoir template, or the perpetration of the need to be rescued by "the One" who knows all, or has what you need, or has the answers, or has the money, or has the solutions. The one posing as the savior gets to feel high, or proud, or good, or important when they save the day. And the one being rescued gets to feel relieved, "loved", supported by the universe (in the form of the saviour showing up), or grateful. Have you played this one out or know people that do? Often what happens is at some point we outgrow these collective styles of relating, such as the helper with the needy, or the savoir with the powerless, or the Source with the one's lacking energy, resources, options, love etc.
We are so much greater than all of these roles, and each of us, in our own time, in our own ways, have the choice to wake up from this and choose again. Together we can envision what empowered support would be like. What would it be like to be loving your life, feeling resourced and confident and receive support from others? What would it be like to be loving your life, feeling resourced and confident and offer support to others? What would it be like to have the greater than/less than, energetic ties and bonds and strings and cords, and whatever else is there, to fall away? We can put our hands up and allow what we've outgrown to fall away, and welcome what's next. We can be the leaders of having and participating in something different. What do you know about empowered support? What if you could give and receive support without the less than/greater than in existence? What abilities do you have to change these realities that you can now access? Are you ready to contribute to the reality of consciousness actualizing, showing up, here and now, through you and as you? It's amazing the gifts each of us can be to changing all of this.
One way to look at it is that we were each given scripts, to read off of, that were "imprinted" throughout time, through experience. And now we can begin to play with what's beyond them, or how we would like to choose to modify them. We can bring love, awareness, healing and all sorts of things to the content of the script, the foundation of it, and everything in and around it. Saying yes to energetic support is about acknowledging how much support and how many resources are available to us. We don't know what's actually available until we choose to know. We don't have to do it on our own, nor do we have to choose the roles. We can be something different, being the source of change, that contributes to everyone waking up and realizing what else is possible. If you would like assistance to acknowledge and access sources of support, and energy, and inner resources, and outer resources please get in touch. I'd be happy to assist you to know how loved and supported you actually are. Say yes to the energetic support available now, to being aware of new possibilities, to tapping into resources and creative spaces and places that can contribute to you loving life and having fun being you!