For many of us we are coming into a time of lining up in physical manifest form with having what we want, or another way of putting it, of having our true heart's desires, or having what aligns with our deepest love and highest wisdom. Whether it be intimacy, personal or professional fulfillment, health and well-being, freedom, joy, happiness or something else, here we are, ready, willing and able to choose this. As we make this shift it's important to acknowledge how much time, energy and focus has been consumed by having what we don't want and coping with that reality, or in wanting what we don't have and always trying to wish it into existence, make it happen, dream about it, fantasize about it, use manifestation tools to try to create it etc.
As we step into the reality of having what we want it feels right, true, real, natural and perhaps neutral. The high of thinking about having what we want or visioning it and the accompanying excitement and exhilaration, and the low of managing unwanted, negative, and undesirable realities is no longer there. The absence of the high and low can feel to the mental/emotional/nervous system like a loss. It may be quite an adjustment to acclimate to the new reality of having. It may feel boring, or empty or without that charge that comes with the highs and lows. The thing with this reality of having is that it is full, dynamic, complete, whole and alive. We can choose to direct all of our focus and attention into the living of it.
Again, however, keep in mind that there may be moments where we may yearn for the familiarity of the high or the low. On some level, before this new reality has been normalized on all levels of our being, we may desire to go back to the comfort and familiarity of wanting what we don't have, or visioning something else. Or we may want to engage the coping mechanisms that we got so used to working with. We may feel the need to do the affirmations, or to create a lacking feeling again, or to withhold something from ourselves so we can feel like we have something to move towards. The key is to watch for these tendencies, acknowledge that these may arise, and through our choice and direction commit to living this life of having fully, completely and abundantly. We can choose to nurture, love and support what we have and witness it unfold. Right now we can choose to activate the energies of celebration, acknowledge the gratitude, notice our hearts and breathe in the stability of being resourced from within. Welcome to this new world! If you would like to read more about coping mechanisms and living beyond them, you can read my blog called Beyond Coping.
What would it be like to have your needs met? Tune into the possibility of that. What would it be like to have your desires fulfilled? What if now is the time to ask these questions and receive the reality of it? There's a tendency to give up on possibilities when over and over again it doesn't seem like anything's changing. Rather than pretending that it doesn't matter, or trying to figure out how to change it, or trying to get better at coping with having what you don't want or wanting what you don't have, what if you could just ask questions and begin to line up with the resources, people and possibilities that facilitate everything changing?
Here is the link to a blog I did, including a google hangout addressing the question: If you knew that your needs would be met and desires fulfilled who would you be and what would you ask for? The blog is called The Frequency of Receiving. If you find that you still have a feeling of being defeated, or let down by life, or like it just isn't possible for you, you may benefit from reading the blog called Transmuting Let Down. Below is a short meditation you can listen to to assist you to access and choose the possibility of having your needs met and desires fulfilled.
Are you willing to have the joy of change? As you know, so often change is associated with being hard, challenging and uncomfortable, however, what if now change can truly be about the transformation into having what you desire in life, meeting your needs, and choosing what honors your heart and lights up your whole body and being? I wrote a blog recently called Feeling Different than the People around You. This is another way that you can choose to feel and be different than the people around you by being willing to have the joy of change and celebrate you and your life.
What I've been observing and experiencing lately is that now is the time to know what our deep yes is and live that. It's time to know what our true needs are and have them met. It's time to know what are deepest desires are and have them fulfilled. As this unfolds our hearts become more engaged in the creation of our lives and enable us to live from love and receive so much more joy and beauty. In order to have this it does require us to know our no and be willing to adjust those things in our inner and outer lives that have been created in fear, or based on a need to defend, protect, contain, or hide something. Are you ready, willing and able to choose freedom, to know the version of you that is already free? Are you ready, willing and able to know you through the frequency of love and have that which supports being and receiving that even more? Here is a short meditation to assist you to have the joy of change. How does it get any better than this?
Is now the time to access your deepest love and highest wisdom? Together let's set the stage for a new beginning. We can now choose to build our lives on a foundation of love, safety and support. We can re-source ourselves from within and create the conditions that invite love and wisdom to be embodied and expressed, beyond the realm where fear, doubt and lack exist. Are you ready to be free and truly step into the creation of your life? Say yes to breathing together, welcoming the possibilities and receiving more of the miracle of you. I've included a meditation to assist you to step into this. And here is a poem that acknowledges possibilities. Now is the time to choose, create, be and receive what we came here to be and do.
Acknowledging the transformation within
Expressed with love
Appreciating the choice to participate
Surrendering the timing
Allowing it to unfold
Trusting the Universe
Held in the arms of the infinite
Actualizing new realities as they can be supported
Many contributing to the new creations being sustained
Having a home here
Breathing into new possibilities
Committing to life
Christine helps people to approach life with greater care, love & wisdom. offering presence and a unique quality of attention she can assist people to play an active role in their mental, emotional and physical health no matter what is going on. With all of the different tools and methods she has access to, she inspires, encourages and supports people to really love and honour themselves, and thus be more able to love and honour others. Through her patience, kindness and astute awareness of the body, mind and heart she accelerates people's self-healing journeys and makes the inner and outer world a whole lot easier to navigate!