The End of the Era of Surrogacy

Being a surrogate is about carrying something on someone else's behalf.  Many of us who are empaths or healers carry the pain and suffering of others.  When we worry about others, in an attempt to show love or demonstrate carrying, we shut of our flow of universal energy.  It is a fear based model of displaying love and carrying, which is actually not self-loving and self-caring.  True love and true caring includes everyone involved.  The energy of the love and the energy of caring is circulated and benefits all. Worry diminishes and depletes the self in the name of caring for another.  It is no longer viable.  For many of us, we can no longer use our energy in this way.  

What if now is the time to release all roles, jobs and commitments to be a mental, emotional and energetic surrogate? We now have a choice to claim mental, emotional and energetic responsibility for our lives, and to empower others with choice.  Taking things on in the guise of helping is no longer a viable option.  As we release these roles, jobs and commitments to surrogacy new possibilities can be presented to us. There are different ways to witness each other. We can learn to directly ask for support, and allow others to ask us, rather than assuming or imposing or giving something without their request because we think we know what they need.  We offer when the request is there, honoring boundaries, asking for and giving permission consciously and directly.  I wonder what's possible as we meet each other in new ways, receiving the gifts we've cultivated, strengthening our self-love and self-care that benefits all through our transmissions of true love and caring.