You have a choice to put your attention on who and what you're becoming, on the new needs, desires and preferences that are emerging, or on the fear of what you're losing, which is actually identity structures that were confining you. We often grieve the loss of limitations, as although we say we want expansion and transformation and new beginnings, there is a loss of something that has become familiar or comfortable via it's consistent presence. Even the loss of pain can induce grief. We've become accustomed to being limited, in lack, in pain, in separation, with identities based in fear, fear of rejection, fear of death, fear of abandonment, fear of judgment, fear of expectation or disappoint, fear of punishment. All of this falls away, it ceases to be. The time comes when we wake up from that dream. Sometimes we can believe that this will result in bliss and total peace but know that creation is a new adventure. Knowing yourself, allowing your true self the space to express is a new adventure. It can include some discomfort and much internal adjustment. Your body may change, your voice tone, your behaviors, and as mentioned before your preferences, desires and needs may change substantially and even surprise you as they emerge.
Another practice that may become relevant is that of releasing attachment to identities. You can choose to be devoted or committed to kindness, gentleness, caring, honoring, love, joy, gratitude, happiness, peace and calm. It's valuable to acknowledge your preference and claim your choice, as that is an act of will that will draw to you support and many beings embodied who desire to step into greatness with you. However, it's also valuable to notice your I Am statements, and any that you have become attached to, such as I am nice, I am thoughtful, I am caring, I am attentive, as there may be moments where you don't desire to be that, or it wouldn't be honoring of yourself to be that. For instance, to be nice to someone who is being dis-honoring towards you may not be the greatest service to you or them. It may be more honoring to be firm or direct or strong. It may not be of value to be attentive to someone who is unkind or critical. It may be more of benefit to not listen well to the voices of criticism or to those who diminish greatness or can't support or welcome your true expression as it may shine the light on the darkness within them that they are not yet willing to see. It is a unique time on the planet. It's your choice how you show up for it, and the more you can re-claim your will or choice to choose, the more ease you can have being you, being here and showing up in allowance of your true desires and preferences being acknowledged and expressed. If you would like assistance navigating your current circumstances or your inner world get in touch. I'd be happy to stand with you and tune in and offer the presence of love and support which can assist you to enhance your ability to be loving and supportive of yourself and others.