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Desires Free from Punishment and Reward

12/15/2018

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Would you like to claim, know and act on your true authentic desires?  This is an invitation to become aware of anywhere you're desires have been clouded or tainted by the influence of the punishment and reward system.  Instead of having your true desires born from within, that which benefits your learning, growth and evolution to knowing and being more of who you are, you may have adopted desires from the environment you grew up in that other's judged as good or led you towards social conditioned rewards, and suppressed or rejected any desires you intrinsically held that we're deemed bad or negative or led to you being punished.

What if right now you could re-claim, own, acknowledge and allow your true desires to re-emerge and be known to you.  If there were no rewards and no punishments, what would you desire?  What exploration or journey is authentically yours and what would it be like to deeply know and trust what arises as you ponder that question?  Take a deep breath, and acknowledge any negative associations you have with positive desires, or any positive associations you have with negative desires.  That's where we can lose sight of what's true for us, when we form these associations.  Such as when I love myself I am rejected by others (positive desire with negative association) or when I hide what's most important to me I am accepted by others (negative desire with positive association).  For a description of a technique to change your associations you can read my blog, What is True Caring?

So, in this moment of now, ask from within for your true authentic desires to be revealed to you, and as you come to know them, ask what it would take for them to be fulfilled!  What would it be like to have your desires fulfilled?  As the effects of the punishment/reward systems are cleared, as well as positive and negative associations, you can welcome in more clarity of knowing what is true for you, ultimately allowing for a greater flow and ease of life and living.  If you would like assistance to get in touch with what you desire, or to clear or release any inauthentic desires you've become attached to having, please get in touch.  How much more can we powerfully, easily and joyfully step into what's true for us and take action that bring true fulfillment?  Is now the time?
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